First love/date
Thursday, April 24, 2008
It is so true that the ghosts of our first relationships loom over us larger than the rest, long after its death and appropriate grieving period
“It’s because you’re young, naïve, brash and foolish enough to throw everything and believe you’re going to live happily ever after without putting any work into it when things go terribly wrong.”“Then you realize, for the first time, what it’s like to be one half of a couple. You break up, you heal, and then you learn your lessons to become a better half in future.”Quoted from Trevvy~We all have to agree that our first relationships give us the first taste of our own identities as a partner. We learn the importance of giving, receiving and compromising in forming a close physical and emotional bond with another person.
So we actually learnt through our relationships... As much as the grieve and pain we experienced, we slowly become more aware of what we have become and what we want from our other half...
For me, there may be downside to it.. since the more dates or relationships you had, the higher expectation you will have from your upcoming dates or potential other half...
But personally, i have learnt to become stronger and easier to move on after a handful of relationships that i've been through... Of cox, that applies to those relationship that you put in a fair bit of everything into it and grieve over it when its over...
And i may suffer so much emotionally, from those serious relationship... But i will still wanna thank them for helping me grow more mature towards the aspect of love...
AHS, QTEH, K, ETZW, SCXY...
And yeah... it becomes so hard to really cry over it anymore.. since you're more aware of whether this relationship is gonna be a serious one or not... or whether he is someone you gonna spend the rest of ur life with...
And sometimes you just like to play around, where your emotions will not play apart in it at all...
=)
I went off at
Y4:55 PM
